7) If you love him and want what's best for him reveal your secret and respect his decision, whether it be for or against you. Much respect and love can come from this, but it takes courage to possibly lose him, but that's the bed you made for yourself. Speaking of love, you may want to reflect upon yourself and ask if you really do love him. Unfaithfulness with the person you so-call love BEFORE marriage is an extremely dangerous omen. Imagine what it will be when you are out of love or feeling unloved. This happens in marriages. It has ebbs and flows, highs and lows. Those that understand this, manage well. Those that don't have affairs to try and remedy the low's. Bringing a 3rd person into a marriage changes it FOREVER.
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